I have been into legal practice from past more than odd ten years. And have seen many situations in the court room , mediation cell , arbitration rooms and in life too. I am a loyal person for my work and never share any informations outside my clients. I am while doing arbitrations and mediation judgements become neutral and always think for betterment of both the parties. There are certainly times when some kind of confrontation or intervention is required. There are times when working around a person’s modus operandi may be worse than trying to help them see the need to change it. I think these times are rare and only really worth it when a kind of standing invitation to do so exists in the relationship. Thanks .